Kabhi Khushi Kabhie Gham (2001)
Your mom’s favorite movie — your therapist’s worst nightmare.
Movie Stats
- Movie: Kabhi Khushi Kabhie Gham (2001)
- Directed by: Karan Johar
- Runtime: 210 minutes
- Release Date: December 14, 2001
- Language: Hindi
- Starring: Shah Rukh Khan, Kajol, Hrithik Roshan, Amitabh Bachchan, Jaya Bachchan, Kareena Kapoor
- Episode: Fear of Stairs — EP 4
What We Talked About
This episode is all about Kabhi Khushi Kabhie Gham (2001), a movie that might be the final boss of Bollywood family dramas. Directed by Karan Johar, this is the quintessential big-budget, all-star cast movie — and it might be the most melodramatic film we’ve seen so far.
Khilli opened the discussion by explaining the cultural importance of K3G — how it wasn’t just a blockbuster in India but also became a diaspora classic, watched by millions of Indians living abroad. It solidified the over-the-top, glamorous style that became a staple of Bollywood blockbusters for the next two decades.
The story revolves around a wealthy family torn apart by class differences, adoption drama, and some truly wild parenting choices. Adam was fascinated (and slightly horrified) that the adopted son plotline was introduced in a flashback within a flashback — and then never spoken about again in the family for years.
Winnie pointed out that the movie is deeply personal for Karan Johar, with its focus on father-son relationships, generational conflict, and the emotional weight of family expectations. Khilli even joked that K3G is basically the Succession of Bollywood — but with more crying and singing.
We also got very distracted talking about the fashion in this movie — especially Kareena Kapoor’s iconic turn as Pooja (aka Poo), whose outfits were scandalously bold at the time. Nicky admitted they didn’t understand the appeal of Poo at first but respected her as a chaotic force of nature.
Visually, K3G is maximum spectacle. The sets are enormous, the camera zooms are aggressive, and the soundtrack is filled with bangers. Adam described the vibe perfectly — this is a movie where “the perfect child is the one that sings a song in front of all his classmates and makes white people cry and stand up.”
By the end, we agreed that Kabhi Khushi Kabhie Gham is less of a movie and more of a cultural event. It’s loud, messy, and emotionally manipulative — but that’s exactly why it works.
Khilli opened the discussion by explaining the cultural importance of K3G — how it wasn’t just a blockbuster in India but also became a diaspora classic, watched by millions of Indians living abroad. It solidified the over-the-top, glamorous style that became a staple of Bollywood blockbusters for the next two decades.
The story revolves around a wealthy family torn apart by class differences, adoption drama, and some truly wild parenting choices. Adam was fascinated (and slightly horrified) that the adopted son plotline was introduced in a flashback within a flashback — and then never spoken about again in the family for years.
Winnie pointed out that the movie is deeply personal for Karan Johar, with its focus on father-son relationships, generational conflict, and the emotional weight of family expectations. Khilli even joked that K3G is basically the Succession of Bollywood — but with more crying and singing.
We also got very distracted talking about the fashion in this movie — especially Kareena Kapoor’s iconic turn as Pooja (aka Poo), whose outfits were scandalously bold at the time. Nicky admitted they didn’t understand the appeal of Poo at first but respected her as a chaotic force of nature.
Visually, K3G is maximum spectacle. The sets are enormous, the camera zooms are aggressive, and the soundtrack is filled with bangers. Adam described the vibe perfectly — this is a movie where “the perfect child is the one that sings a song in front of all his classmates and makes white people cry and stand up.”
By the end, we agreed that Kabhi Khushi Kabhie Gham is less of a movie and more of a cultural event. It’s loud, messy, and emotionally manipulative — but that’s exactly why it works.
Our Takeaways
“The perfect child is the one that sings a song in front of all his classmates and makes white people cry and stand up.”Adam
“It’s the most Bollywood, Bollywood film — like one of the most Bollywood, Bollywood films.”Khilli
“So one of the things that I don’t understand is that Rohan comes back, right, as a fully formed adult — and he does not know that his brother is adopted. How does that happen?”Nicky
“If anything, I remember feeling fortunate that I didn’t grow up in India so that I wouldn’t have to endure this… I probably could not live in a household where the father just calls all the shots.”Winnie
Weirdest Tangent
We compared this movie to Succession but decided that K3G is way more emotionally intense — because nobody in Succession ever breaks into song after disowning their child.
About Fear of Stairs
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We’re four wildly different movie nerds diving into the chaos of Indian cinema. Sometimes we’re charmed. Sometimes we’re confused. Always entertained.
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